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Question 1
Dear Astro Poets,
Firstly, thank you for all that you do -- I have been following Astro Poets on twitter since the conception of my love for astrology and you have helped me every step of the way.
I am writing today because I'm looking for some answers. I fell in love for the first time last year and recently had my heart broken with little to no answers. I have had a rough few months following this heartbreak where this person infects my everyday thoughts, my perception of myself, and even my dreams. Like, almost every single dream I have involves this person. These dreams range from reconciliation, embarrassment, love, and betrayal. This is common for heartbreak, I've heard, but I am a person who highly values my dreams and this is getting really annoying.
For some context, I have had a crush on this person since the moment I first saw them. This was followed by years of me pining over them in our mutual friend group, yet not really acting on anything beyond harmless flirting. Finally, I decided to invite them into my life. And it was great. I've always had an "aversion to love," but I really let myself get deep into this one. At one point, I even considered stopping our romantic relationship because I was so scared of losing them as a friend. I wouldn't say this was a normal relationship, as both of us were playing games. There were no rules, only the time we spent together was real. We both had an appreciation for film, art, fashion, long conversation, and being the life of the party.
About a year into our romantic relationship, they moved across the country for work, but we kept in touch. When they returned after only a few months, I was elated my person was back. Then they declared they just wanted to be friends, not explaining anything further. I was hurt, but said I had also had doubts about a long lasting romantic relationship and considered doing the same thing. I was very understanding as I had not been forthright with my feelings during our relationship. Unfortunately, they didn't really mean the friendship thing. I have not heard from this person once since this conversation months ago. I thought our relationship was so much more than that. I had considered them a very, very good friend in my life who I introduced to friends and family, who I was falling in love with. And now nothing -- apart from them infecting my thoughts and dreams. I am at a loss.
I guess my general questions are... should I forget this person? Should I fight for them? Any tips on how to deal with the hole in my heart? Can I have a hug?
Now for the fun part; our charts.
Me (she/her):
Sun: Gemini
Moon: Leo
Rising: Leo
Mercury: Taurus
Mars: Taurus
Venus: Gemini
My ex lover:
Sun: Libra
Moon: Libra
Rising: Aquarius
Mercury: Libra
Mars: Sagittarius
Venus: Scorpio
Much appreciated,
A pride-wounded Leo Moon
Dear Gemini,
First—we love you. This is so tough. And you are so brave to write us and open your heart like this.
Gemini and Libra are a very solid match. Libras are very social and fun. Geminis are very philosophical and fun. There is a lot that works between you two.
Your Leo moon governs a lot of your emotions. It makes you brave and vulnerable and yet in this vulnerability there is the chance to be hurt. But you value deep, close intimacy above all. And this is where your Leo moon really distinguishes you from other Geminis, who may not feel things as deeply as you do.
It sounds like this Libra left you with very little clarity. Not rare for a Libra! They do not love to explain or get into minefields of emotion. But your Leo moon really needs closure. As all fire sign moons do — or at least, it needs answers. And I would encourage you to reach out in an effort to have at least one more conversation. Or possibly more!
I do think one of you has to break the silence and I also think it may have to be you—the person with the most questions. Give yourself peace. Even if the answers aren’t what you want to hear. But also, you may be surprised with how the conversation goes. When Libras are met with sincerity, they give sincerity back. So find it in you to reach out, if you still want to, and be genuine and honest as to why. You cared about this person. You want to know what happened. Much love to you!
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Question 2
Hello Poets,
I am a Scorpio sun approaching the end of my Saturn Return. This process has been beautiful, painful and illuminated in love. I have begun training in a career I am deeply passionate about and am nourished by. I have healed intergenerational wounds in my family. I am in a season of gratitude and peace for the first time in a long time. However, I am working my ass off being in school and working two jobs, which means that protecting my joy is my main priority to sustain myself.
I fell in love with a Leo (Scorpio Moon) last year and parted ways with him earlier this year. I cared for him deeply, and have grieved the loss of him in my life. But I have recently discovered an undeniable and intense sensual connection with a Sag (Cancer Moon) who lives out of town. My life is too busy for anything serious but I can’t help but think about how alive I felt letting go with the Sag, and these memories keep me chugging through my intense schedule.
My questions for the Poets are: What should I be spending my energy and focus on for the next 6 months? And how much can I invest into this connection with the Sag who stirs my spirit?
My chart:
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Pisces
Rising: Sagittarius
Venus: Scorpio
Mercury: Scorpio
Mars: Sagittarius
A Scorpio in Transition
Dear Scorpio,
The good news is that Sagittarius isn’t a sign that demands “seriousness” off the bat (or maybe ever!)
The perfect signs to have a casual fling with: Sagittarius, Libra, Gemini
(Just a little something for you to keep in mind!)
The great news for you is that this Sagittarius has a water moon (Cancer). That compliments your Scorpio sun and your moon in Pisces. This is why you felt so free letting go. And your rising is in Sagittarius which works well with his sun sign. There is off the charts chemistry here — you’re both people who invest deeply but also know how to party.
I would suggest seeing where this takes you. It doesn’t have to get serious. But it can bring you a lot of levity. And maybe you need that as it sounds like you’re working so much. Sags are not demanding of anyone’s time and they hate it when someone is demanding of theirs. Just keep it light and breezy. The best thing you can do with a Sagittarius is to be spontaneous. They love that. It makes them feel free.
Have fun with this one!
Question 3
Hi Astro Poets!
Let me start off by saying your sub stack gives me life. The bullseyes you have hit with the Capricorns have been incredible.
With that being said, I need some clarity on my love life. I was with someone and had a child with him but we are no longer together or on speaking terms as of 2022. I have tried to move on with a Leo man but for some reason I can’t shake my ex. He is currently with a vile Cancer woman whom has cut off all communication between my ex and I due to her being threatened by me. Is this normal to not be able to shake this Pisces man? Is a Leo man more in my caliber? I want my son to grow up with a strong father figure and me to finally be happy. Any/all help is appreciated. Thanks for all that you do!
My chart:
Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Scorpio
Mercury/Saturn/Uranus: Sagittarius
Venus: Scorpio
Mars/Jupiter: Pisces
Ascendant: Sagittarius
Ex’s Chart
Sun: Pisces
Moon: Scorpio
Mercury: Pisces
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Taurus
Ascendant: Aquarius
Dear Capricorn,
First of all, you are so powerful. A Capricorn with a Scorpio moon is a tough fighter. No matter what happens to you, there is no giving up. And you definitely do not feel sorry for yourself. You just keep going. We are rooting for you!
Second—a Leo is better for a Capricorn than a Pisces. Although both are compatible matches in different ways. Leos understand how important it is for a Capricorn to shine. To appear put together. And to win. And you need a partner who understands all your headstrong qualities. This is very important for a Cap.
Pisces are better nurturers than Leos. They will process with you. They will listen. There will be a lot of empathy. But this will get annoying at some point for a Capricorn. And often times, it will feel like manipulation. (It may very well be manipulation.)
Pisces and Cancer (your ex’s current partner) are a very compatible match. On paper this makes sense. But on paper it also makes sense for you to be with a Leo more than a Pisces. What really binds you with your ex is your moons. Both are in Scorpio. Both of you feel deeply and get obsessive easily. He hasn’t forgotten you. The same way you haven’t forgotten him. But it may bring some joy to your life if you give the Leo a try, or keep trying with him. Leos are great role models and quite paternal/maternal as well.
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Question 4
Hello!
New subscriber here, so excited to finally have the means to be a part of the cool kids club. I am writing to you to get more insight into how I can lean on parts of my chart in some of my upcoming journey. Here's my chart first (I'll also attach a pic) then I'll get into it:
Virgo Sun
Leo Moon
Sag Rising
Virgo Mercury
Libra Venus
Scorpio Mars
I recently uprooted my whole settled life in a city with close friends to go on a year of adventure before I start grad school next June. I moved across the country to work at a seasonal outdoor ed job, and honestly, I am surprised that I've been adjusting so well. I told my therapist that I am trying to follow my Sag Rising tendencies, but sometimes my Virgo sun makes me question myself. My journey right now, I think, is to try to find home within just myself so I can feel more comfortable with change. I think it's working.
However, at the same time, I am trying to learn how to feel connected to my family despite a variety of complicated emotions. I want to be able to feel the love from my parents despite coming to terms with some disappointment in how they raised me and sometimes continue to treat me. Changing your parents, at least in drastic ways, I'm trying to accept is a losing game. But do I have enough strength to hold both truths to be true? That they do love me, even though they haven't given me all the care I needed. I find it very hard sometimes to not think in black and white--if they hurt me, how is it that they can really love me at the same time? And how can I feel secure enough in myself to believe that I am deserving of the care I continue to ask for?
Thank you so much. Coming to terms with your childhood and your family feels like a pinnacle of adulthood and being in your mid-20's. I am hoping that I can keep reaching for the light at the end of that tunnel.
Signed,
An Apprehensive Virgo with a Bold Sag Rising
Dear Virgo,
You are on such a beautiful journey! Your letter radiates optimism even as you’re navigating some complicated terrain.
Your Sagittarius rising is definitely helping you adjust in your new city. Sagittarius energy is outgoing, adventurous, and freedom oriented. You want to try new things! You are not afraid.
This is all beautiful. And you have your care-taker Virgo sun to protect you and also give you some limits. That Virgo energy is also the energy communicating with your family. Because your Mercury is in Virgo. And it means you are a careful communicator, and a kind one, but you sometimes don’t say the full truth because you are afraid of hurting someone’s feelings.
You can totally lean into your Leo moon and say the full, blunt truth (with as much warmth as possible—what Leo energy is good at). The truth, of course, is always complicated. But your chart is very well rounded. You are someone who is quite understanding of others. It is time, however, to stand up for yourself. As you have already been doing. And sharing more of yourself and your thoughts on the past with your family.
Lean into your Sagittarius placement for all of this. It will never fail you. Sags have a hard time telling anything but the truth. At times they may come off as inconsiderate but they just want to get real. And cut through all the bullshit, so they can get to the fun part.
You are on your way to the fun part. We love you.
Love,
The Astro Poets
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