A person with a Venus in Libra cares deeply about being intellectually turned on. They are in a constant personal battle—following the intellect or the heart.
In the beginning stages of pursuing someone, a Venus in Libra may seem detached, a bit cold, or reserved. They don’t jump into things with abandon. They definitely survey the territory, the situation, and the other person—then make a calculated decision on how to proceed.
While this may seem like a very smart and self-contained approach, it ends once a Venus in Libra is actually in a relationship. Then their heart takes over and they get messy. In the best possible way. They shower their partners with attention, affection, and are willing to go any distance.